Change Your Approach
By Deborah Brown-VolkmanWouldn't it be easier if your career could magically improve on
its own?
The working world has changed dramatically over the past couple of
years. There are fewer positions and more jobs being sent overseas.
It can seem like your skills need updating sooner, and that's
because they do. A global economy means change happens quickly. You
can't sit back anymore and hope that change will not find you;
because it will.
If you are struggling in your career and the uncertainty is getting
to you, you can do something about it. You can't always alter your
circumstances, but you can modify how you deal with them.
So, How Do You Change Your Approach? Follow These Four Steps
Below:
1. Stop Thinking You Know It All
One of the top challenges my clients face is themselves. I make a
suggestion and they tell me why it won't work. And this is before
they even try it. Getting older is a good thing; with it comes
knowledge and experience. Getting older hurts you when you believe
you've "been there, done that" and you haven't. The next time you
tell yourself that something cannot be done, inquire "do I know
that to be 100% true?" If the answer is no, don't discard the idea.
It may be the answer you are seeking.
2. Find Out Where You Fit
Clarity and confidence come from knowing the facts. Let's say you
want to switch jobs. Spend time researching the possible places
where your skills are needed. Find out what companies in and out of
your industry, are looking for, and assess where you fit. Look at
your resume and compare it to what those companies want. If you see
that you don't have a particular skill, do not use that as a reason
to stop. Take a class or read a book to get up to speed. There is
always a place you can go to learn more if you want to.
When you want to adjust the direction your career is taking, you
don't always get a guarantee upfront that it will work. What you do
get is a feeling in your stomach that says you are headed in the
right direction. If you can combine what feels right, with good
information, that's when you will be successful.
3. Make A Plan
Yes, you may want your career to be different overnight, but that's
not how things work. All great things in your career will not
happen on their own. You need a plan which will help you take a
bigger goal and break it into smaller pieces.
All plans have three pieces: 1) What you want; 2) How you will get
what you want; 3) Your projected completion date. The more you
clearly define what you want, the faster you will reach your goal.
Once you have clarity, write down the steps to make your goal
happen. Then, give yourself a deadline. Most people work best when
the pressure is on, so give yourself one to motivate yourself
through the process.
4. Reach Out
It's OK to ask for help. It takes a strong person to ask for
assistance. If you are worried that someone might not want to help
you, let him or her tell you that. Don't assume that anyone will
think less of you for opening up and sharing that your career might
not be going as well as you'd like at the moment.
Your career can span thirty, forty, fifty years or more, so there's
a good chance you'll hit a bump in the road at some time and will
need some assistance. Just like you would help someone who came to
you, let other people return the favor.
So, what do you say? You only have one life to live, so it might as
well be a life you love!


